Love, a four letter word, simple yet with deep meaning
A word that can express one's interest or identity
A true reflection of how valued a person can be to another
And also, possibly the most misunderstood word
To love a person is beyond exhibiting attributes of care
Nor the type that ends with spoken words, just to caress emotions
But to be actively involved in their business when there's a need to
Doing it with their distinct personalities in mind and great respect
To love a person includes providing them with guidance and insight
Walking the uncharted path of this world, while holding their hands
Encouraging the good in them, see that it grows, stable and secured
While you chastise those bad habits that may hinder
To love is patience when silence fills the room
Grace when mistakes repeat themselves
Choosing understanding over ego
And forgiveness over keeping score
It is staying when walking away feels easier
Listening beyond words, hearing the heart
Creating space for growth, not control
And loving them for who they are
Not who you want them to become
Loving is commitment in ordinary moments
In shared laughter and uncomfortable truths
In showing up, even when you’re tired
And choosing them again, every single day
Because love is not a feeling you stumble into
It is a decision, renewed constantly
A quiet promise lived out in action
And the courage to be vulnerable, together
So, let love becomes the language of your living
Written in effort, sealed in sacrifice
Not loud, not perfect, just faithful and true
A daily choice to see, serve, and stay
For in loving this way, we discover ourselves
Learning that love is both giver and teacher
A quiet strength that outlives seasons and storms
And the truest measure of what it means to be human.